It's the way they are

I hate comparing myself to other people for I am just very ordinary. And all the time, I see that everyone is superior than me and that I’m inferior. Most of all, I always have high regards for them. And I want them to succeed. I am always happy if somebody will progress and have a good life.

But I’m just wondering why other people don’t want others to succeed? Seems they don’t want to be surpassed for what they’re having now.  I encountered lots of people already with this kind of attitude. Feeling superior in everything.

Like during my first job after my graduation in college. Maybe they were wondering why it’s easy for me to find a job, like it’s less than a month after graduating, I already found one. Or perhaps, they were thinking that I’m not intelligent like them and yet I got a job quickly. Anyway, there’s someone who asked me, “So you are working as a call center agent? U know how to speak English with good grammar and pronunciation?” I felt insulted but I just smiled. I don’t want to argue since I don’t want to hurt that person even if the words spoken were painful.

Another experience: I was still a student. No capacity of buying books that I want. So whatever free books I like I will see to it that I can read it even just a bit. Now, I had psychology major classmates in one of my minor subjects and they’re mentioning about the science of handwriting. And I wanted to know the meaning of handwriting for I love psychology and I was a frustrated psychology student. So there’s one person who owned a book. When I visited her place, I was just curious. So I touch it without asking permission. And she got angry. She didn’t give me a permission to read it. Why? I wouldn’t ask for it, I wouldn’t get, I just wanted to read it! So I said to myself, once I’d be having a job, I’d really look for a book similar to that and I’d share it to my siblings or to whoever who wants to read it. And finally I had it. And I did share it.

Well, I have lots of experiences of being down graded. They think, I’m damn, ugly, dark skinned, flat nose, no skills or whatever and other bad words. Hmmm, I’m used to it already. It’s kinda painful but that’s life. Every person is different. And I embrace their indifference to me. Nothing I can do about it. It’s the way they are.

[Mabelle's Hopefaithnlove]

Putting Shoutbox on WordPress

Putting a message board in WP is kinda hard if you don’t know how to do the web hosting. But if you do and don’t have the money, it’s also hard for a message board to appear on your site.

Me, I tried to do the web hosting, but I can only host one account with my fatcow.com. Worst is, I really don’t know what I was doing.

Until, I tried to change my message board on my other blogs. I am using shoutmix right now. And customize it the way I want to . As if I know . Anyway, I figured out that I can put my link here in WP as my message board.

Wanna know? First, you have to sign up at shoutmix. Customize your shoutbox. Opsss, don’t forget to set the time and set the other neccessary buttons that you need. Click get the code and choose “USE SHOUTBOX DIRECTLY”. And your link will appear. Copy and use it as one of your link in your blogroll. And that’s it, you have your message board now .

Very easy and simple . Thanks to shoutmix for the great free service.

Now, this is my simple illustration:

1. Go to Blogroll

2. Click add links

3. Add another category. Be it tag board, Chat board, Message board or whatever . And if you want to have your shoutbox to be the first on the line of your links, put some ascii codes and it will be the first on your link list.

4. On the left side, put your link there and name it. And don’t forget to check the category that you just added. And that’s it.

5. This is the result of my SHOUTBOX. You can see it on the right side .

This is just my simple suggestion.

Misty Look with SeasideHorse Cross Stitch

Every time I will try to change my theme, I will still end up with this misty look. I don’t know. I just love its settings I guess. I also tried to change it’s picture but the one that’s pleasing to my eyes is my seaside horse cross stitch. For now, I’ll just use this one. I will just change it later. Later, like during the time, I will be having a built in Theme Editor on my presentation. That would be easy for me to change the things I want to change on this blog.

Did one of my task

I’m awake very early in the morning today. I did one of my tasks. Thanks God I have it. And right now, I’m experimenting on my browser. Installing and reinstalling things. Hope this will work fine or else I’m screwed up.  And there’s no other way out but to reformat my computer so that everything will be cleared in the system of my cpu.  Huh!  This is life sometimes.  Too much experiment and all the things that will end up to being so useless.

Anyway, have a nice day everyone!

No jobs!

Early morning I was clicking and clicking for some jobs. But I left my desk for I need to clean the puke of my dog. When I’m back it’s all gone. Everything is fully reserved. Well, I guess it’s not for me. Somebody deserved it or need it more than I do.  And besides it’s nice to share things with others.  That’s what I’m doing always and will be doing for life.  Geee!

Woke up early

It’s another day. Woke early at 2:20am. Transferred here in the living room for my bb keeps on whining and doesn’t want to continue sleeping in the room. Since then, here I am again, posting some entries for the day.  I hope I will feel sleepy after this.  If not, then I’ll continue updating my sites.  Huh!  It’s so hard to become a mother and a wife.  The work is more than 24 hours.  And 24 hours are not enough to complete all the necessary work.  Well, this is life.  I have to live with this.

hoping good for my domain

Hope my domain on the other site will redirect completely on my blog. As I’m using two urls in one site. Huh! Was worried! If there’s no redirection i guess i need to forget my domain which is $8+ and $39 for the upgrade of my redirection. i can’t do anything about it. i don’t know how to redirect. It says free of advertisement if you will upgrade but right it’s not set yet. Been asking for help for several days already but just one answer and it’s not d answer that I’m looking for.

Wish I just purchased domains here. I should be having 2-3 domains if I did purchase it here. (Sigh!)

Still waiting

Right now, I’m still waiting for my other domain to be set.  I am confused with me using my old site and at the same time using my domain.  I enable the masking but I’m still having two urls in one site.  Hope I can use my domain without further paying more bucks.

Wish I did purchase another domain here in wordpress for whatever problems, moderators can help instantly.  Not like on the other site that it says, redirect is not applicable and that I need to pay around $30+ for the redireciton to complete.  Huh!  So sad!

Hope that technician will take care of my domain.  If not, I just don’t know.  I guess I’ll have to go with two urls in one site, which is kinda funny or disgusting.

Nothing Can Compare

Nothing can compare with the assistance of wordpress’s moderators/personal (special mention for Hanni for she’s the one who helped me a lot). It’s great! They will answer problems/inquiries quickly. What’s best is there’s no additional fee for me to transfer my other domain here and no additional fee for any redirection problems.

Keep up the good service wordpress. Excellent here! Full support from you!

Best Blogging Buddies Award

Thanks again Lady-Norms for this award (oh where’s the award?). I can’t locate the picture anymore. Sorry for that! Well, this is my first award here in my newly created blog.

And gosh, I can still remember that it’s a heart, I just couldn’t find the picture for I saved it in a disk. And either it’s misplaced or I reformatted the disk. Too bad really! Well, anyway, that was a heart which means it’s full of love.

And I’m hoping that you will be filled and surrounded with all the love that you need. Wishing we could be friends for life. Hope you will not forget me even if we will not be having any communication in the future. So long my newly found friend! I’m looking for the time that we will meet again in chat or in person maybe.  Thanks so much for being one of my best blogging buddies!